YOUR INSIDE AND OUT

A sick soul causes a sick body. Your inside controls your outside. Our achievement in life are inside-out, but when your mind mind and spirit are stagnant,, how do expect your outside life to be?
　
　
　
Your inside life is like a substance used to coat your real you.You are the product of "you" in you.
　
　
　
Till next time
　
　
IBENEWEKAS MIND

STOP PROCRASTINATION TO ACHIEVE SUCCESS

A wasted time is a wasted life. Today can only exist today, it can exist tomorrow.to procrastinate is to limit your vision and dreams through unnecessary postponement of issues.The more you procrastinate, the more you waste your time of achievement.
　
　




Lets see what could cause one to procrastinate:
* Laziness: A lazy person is one who doesn't involve much energy in doing or achieving a goal. He/she always malingering when it comes to sacrificing time and strenght
*Limited time: People always complain of limited time,butthe truth is that
there is enough time in the world. A limited time could yield unlimited success when the right technique is applied.If you don't know that the year is too short, start the years budget from january, you may end up postponding sixty percent of the budget to the next year.
*Bare-mind: emptiness is the greatest disease in the world. I wouldn't be surprise when i hear that someone started business with $7000 and ended up looking for a better occupation,while the mental healthy ones are making millions from a small business they started with less than $500. Like i said earlier, what matters is not how much cash you have,but it is about how much idea you have.
　
　



A bare-mind has nothing to offer because it possesses nothing, then procrastination becomes a dwelling place,hoping that tomorrow he will do better than today,forgeting that greatness of tomorrow is determined by the efforts you made today. Since tomorrow will never come, why not utilise the opportunities of today to work out your tomorrow.
　
　
　
If you really want to succeed in life throw procrastination away.




Till next time



                               ibenewekas mind

FEAR AND ANXIETY ARE TOOLS FOR FAILURE

The greatest evil you can add to your thought is to vie

w from the perspective of fear.

Fear and anxiety are the greatest weapons devil uses to destroy people's dream. Being afriad of failure is the first failure.

　

Fear is the shadow of failure to come. To be afraid means anticipating failure.Fear has no basis on reality; it bears no positive but full of negative.Fear goes with failure, unhappiness, heartache, disappointment and defeated dreams.

　

　

Holding unto fear can lead to mental trauma.Do not be afriad of what your result will be, just do your best and leave the rest for god.

Till next time
　




IBENEWEKAS MIND

THINK POSITIVELY

A closed mind they say is a closed destiny.The source of everything that happens in your life is your mind.The only difference between your past,present and future is the state of your mind or your mindset.

　

The height you will go in life determined,to the degree,by the way you key your mind into circumstances and challenges around you.

A person whose mentality is always on negative things will never ever succeed in life.The time you stop thinking positively is the time your positive thinking remain stagnant.

　

　

That is to say those who make good use of their mind will have their mind developed and become more efficient,while those who don't want to bother their mind will be cast aside.

　

Here is a story of two young men.emmanuel,a young university graduate was born into an averagely-rich family.

He had his primary and secondary education,but became discourage when jamb examination result could not favour him.He intended to study an architectural design but his jamb grade could not carry him.He made his way into the university through supplementary admission,to study geography.Emmanuel spent years in the university only to graduate as a gate-keeper in one manufacturing industry at lagos.

　

　

　

James was an opposite of emmanuel. He was born into a very poor family. His primary and secondary education was through struggling and occasional assistance from caring neighbours. A brilliant young man he was, but his university dream was not working out because of finance. James became a small-scale poultry farmer in his village. his farm grew to the level that people from neighbouring villages start buying eggs and chicken whole-sale from his farm. Soon james was controlling hundreds of thousands of naira at this time he started employing people, after he got admission to study business administration at the university of ibadan.

　

So what i'm trying to say is that positive thinking is the only thing that can change your life from bad to good living. Anywhere you find your self in life, there is opportunity there for you to maximise your potentialities,only if you customized your mind very well.

Till next time

IBENEWEKAS MIND

WOMEN ARE SPECIAL TREASURE

Women are unique beings made by god in a special way.
god made the heaven and the earth ,including man.he had to go extra length in making woman.
amongst the whole creatures made by god,it was found that none could fulfil the abligation that
the woman would have to do.
　
god had to go extra mile to create the woman.it took god extra work to prepare the woman.
the world of womanhood is that of many treasures,packaged up in a special box,
which when positively unraveled, could sustain the whole nation like pillars,
and keep it from falling.
　
the problem our women has is that they are ignorant of the treasures in them. as a result,
it becomes an impediment to positively put to work the virtues in them.
Every animal on earth is the product of the bowel of the woman.when the hen lays it eggs,it sit-on eggs
untill they hatched into tender chicks.still at this time,the hen cannot leave the chicks.

　
in home the woman is the director of the home affairs. woman does the task very well if given an external
aid by the man...so as to say the woman may not do much by her personal effort...
　
　
i pray that god should open the eyes of our men to be able to see that women are special treasure,that should be taken with care not with rough hand.
till next time

IBENEWEKAS MIND

HOW TO AVOID FIGHTING WITH YOUR SPOUSE

In this generation were women wants to be ontop of the world non of them wants to be under men because they believe in statement ''what a man can do a woman can do better.''
       






 That line have made some women in our society stronghead...making them to believe that they can without men.




 Now what if  as a man you end up marring such woman....a woman that nags,a woman that gossips,a woman that love fighting...As a man you will like to show the woman that you are the man of the house by beating her out of anger.
       


 Does beating your wife shows that you are the man of the house? the answer is NO! Instead it shows how folish and stupid your are.....as a mature mind you have to know how to control your temper.


 Now here is the best one way to avoid fighting with your wife       
 

Probably the woman has started her nagging again....and this time you feel like punching her twice...swallow your anger and walk away...find somewhere like bar or hangout with friend,drink but don't sleep with anther woman outside....because your wife behaviour is not something to embrace.and know that sleeping with another woman that is not your wife brings bad luck...so just have fun with your male friends and by the you come back home you would have forgotten what happened and your wife too would have calm down by then   



 thanks till next time on

 IBENEWEKAS MIND

5 WAYS TO MAKE NIGERIAN GIRLFRIEND LOVE YOU THE MORE

(1) Show her but don't over show the love, in abroad you can show the girl that you crazy about her,you can over show her love and this will make her love you the more....in naija the case is differ i have seen the case of a girl that left her boyfriend smply because the boyfriend use to call her everyday and sometimes when the boyfriend call her she will just cut the call because shes fade up of his everyday every hour every minute and second calling and she added that even when she cut the call the boy will foolishly keep calling 

 if you want nigerian girl to love you more avoid such stupidity.


(2)Calling her sweet names will definitely make her love you the more but don't take as if "na school you dey go"just don't take so serious....because if you do their mind will be you can't live without them...which is not good because they will definitely take you for granted so if  you want your girl to love you the more avoid such.


(3)Mocking them sometimes will help boost their love towards you....don't doubt me because i have been in a relationship with different girls and i know their "do" and "don't" and that makes me to know that sometimes you have to make them feel a little sad but make sure you call her and ask her for forgiveness this will make her love you the more...it will enable her know that you know her weak point.


(4)If she talk to other guys just because two of you had a little arguement ...the only thing you can do is pretend as if you are not hurt by her actions and if you call her and she cut the call, don't ever try calling her again if she loves you she call back trust me this will enable her know that you are not concern by anything that does to hurt you.

(5)The sure thing is that girls love guys that dress smart and neat but don't over do it...if you curl your head or decide to make your hair to look like phyno then you are on your own naija girls don't fancy that type of guys they call them mugus immature mind so guys don't code your self like knowing that you are not a star yet just dress normal smart with style and you will see your girl being proud to be called your girlfriend and also be confident because naija girl love confident guys you have to show her that you are not the type of guy that will be control by her just because she pretty or sexy....show her that you are the man,this will make your naija babe love you more.....thanks till next time

          IBENEWEKA'S MIND

 

HOW TO GET AIRTEL 500 MB FREE

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                                            goodluck friends